Young Life in Freetown | International Day of the Girl Child
My name is Inyilla Borteh Conteh. I was born in Sierra Leone to Fula and Susu parents, who are both Muslims. I'm a 20-year-old mass communications student at Fourah Bay College. Over the years I've tried to understand what it means to be a girl child growing up as a Muslim in a small and peaceful African community. Here's my experience. When I was five, I was told in many different ways that I couldn't dress like a boy. My mother would often say, "you're not a boy; walk gently; don't sit with your legs spread apart." When I celebrated my tenth birthday, my dream was to make lots of friends, be it a pack of boys or a yoke of girls. One day I tried to play football at school, and my teacher said " football is a game for boys. From now on, you must stop playing with boys and start being cordial with the girls. I shouldn't have to tell you that liquids find their levels." I wanted to try lots of things, like climbing trees to p